tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post116928888226328492..comments2023-10-31T03:25:33.696-07:00Comments on Cassandra Says: Cassandra Sayshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07775317504418213521noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post-27977341500767776422007-02-13T15:27:00.000-08:002007-02-13T15:27:00.000-08:00Zan - Yep. I drifted away from the organized BSDM ...Zan - Yep. I drifted away from the organized BSDM scene mostly because I had a hard time finding people who were a good match for me. True subs I don't care for at all - they bore me. I'm way too bossy and agressive to be a sub myself, so I found myself kind of not fitting into any of the pre-established categories. For some reason it was easier in London - the scene here in CA I didn't care for at all. <BR/>There IS a better mix. It's just hard to find. Those people are like gold dust.Cassandra Sayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07775317504418213521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post-72756259969676576682007-02-13T05:11:00.000-08:002007-02-13T05:11:00.000-08:00I do believe you're my long-lost twin. Everything ...I do believe you're my long-lost twin. Everything you wrote rings soooo true to me. And if you want to call yourself queer, you should. It's what I use for myself. I'm not a lesbian, because I love men too much, but I'm not straight either, because I love women too much. So, I'm stuck. Oh well :)<BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, I keep meeting boring everything :( <BR/>I'm hoping that changes soon, since I've only been in this city for a few months. Plus, I'm really damned close to New Orleans. That's gotta be good for something ;)<BR/><BR/>And I totally get what you mean about liking men who seem soft and pretty but have something dark and savage about them. Gods, how I've tried to explain that! I don't like true subs, because come on, I don't wanna have to make every damned decision. But I can't handle 'macho' either. There's gotta be a better mix.Zanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01086497481509929875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post-1171316560751488262007-02-12T13:42:00.000-08:002007-02-12T13:42:00.000-08:00I think the reason I'm mulling it over is that I'm...I think the reason I'm mulling it over is that I'm not sure that I should be calling myself queer. I do live with a man after all, and I'm not likely to hook up with a woman in the near future because, you know, monogamy and all that. In the past I have been told very firmly by lesbians that the moment I decided to move in with a man I lost the right to call myself queer or anything similar.Cassandra Sayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07775317504418213521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post-1171249641971315512007-02-11T19:07:00.000-08:002007-02-11T19:07:00.000-08:00Why thank you...I still don't know where to place ...Why thank you...<BR/>I still don't know where to place myself on the scale either. I would have called myself a pure 3 in my teens, but now...maybe a 2? <BR/>Eh, maybe I'm just meeting really boring women. I'm not discounting that as a possibility either - if I moved back to London I might feel quite differently.Cassandra Sayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07775317504418213521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14234730.post-1171244261661573102007-02-11T17:37:00.000-08:002007-02-11T17:37:00.000-08:00i...dunno how or even as i'd try to define you, bu...i...dunno how or even as i'd try to define you, but you do sound like a lot of fun...<BR/><BR/>i like my boys pretty, too, insofar as i do like 'em at all. i remain...open, but i suspect that while i may not be a Kinsey 6, i'm probably higher than 3, at least.belledame222https://www.blogger.com/profile/13947289856453172848noreply@blogger.com